Friday, November 06, 2009


I recently ran across this quote that couldn't be closer to the truth! "The man who runs from God in the morning will scarcely find Him the rest of the day." -John Bunyan

The Bible could be compared to a chin up bar. It's firm, completely solid and stable yet, neither will do us good if we do not utilize them.

Proverbs is packed full of words like seek, find, go and get...those are all active words, they all hint at work and aggresive pursuit. Things don't naturally fall into our laps without a lot of time, effort and energy being invested.

"For the simple are killed by their turning away, and the complacency of fools destroys them."
-Proverbs 1:32

"Apply your heart to instruction and your ear to the words of wisdom."
-Proverbs 23: 12

Ta da!

In the works...
Yes, for the #1 self portrait of the year. not.
bed?
(yes! that is a hole there)

a Few pictures '09



See you next year! www.fathersoncamp.org

Isaac's Birthday Party


The Big
8!

The birthday boy goes for the pinata!
Oops....got off a little bit...
The whole crew- Ramsey, Isaac, Keith, Isabel, Eva, Anna, Corey, Ben, Matthew and Jonathan
Samuel, our little pumpkin. :)
Driving back to the cabin

Eating lunch
Roasting hot dogs

Isaac and I go for a birthday date....

A couple weeks ago, Isaac and I went out for a "date" for his birthday. He decided he wanted to do something together rather than just get a present. So, we started at Chipotle, played putt-putt, had dessert at CocoMero and then went to see the 3-D version of Toy Story.

Here he is at CocoMero. It's a frozen yougurt place that has machines lining the walls with all different flavors. Isaac choose to mix ALL the fruit flavors!
Adding a little cookies and cream...

Showing off the yummy (at least to an 8-year-old) creation
Adding all sorts of toppings...


Putt-putt: Can you tell we were mostly in the water??
Getting the ball out of the water was the highlight!!


Oops...we lost the club!!

Can you see his missing bottom teeth? =-)
He picked out this particular Illini hat because he liked the big I for Isaac.
A sunny self-portrait

Thursday, November 05, 2009

New venture

So I've decided to take my glue and staples type sewing to the next step. Crocheting. For proof of just how clueless I am, I had to check the spelling for that word on google. I by no means hold expectations of churning out a afgan anytime soon. My fingers tend to turn to lead when attempting such delicate work. Still I'm willing to give it yet another try.


I bought some nice yellow yarn while doing grocery shopping for mom today. My investment came to a grand total of $4.94. Not too pricy for something that might not work out.
(Isaac went on a "date" with Leah for his birthday)
They went to put put golf & lunch & ice cream...
:)

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

camp 09

randomish pictures from last weekend

Joe Marquez, Dad, Judge Roy Moore, Norm Wakefield
Max & Emily
Sitting around after Judge Moore spoke Saturday night
Poor eva getting more eye drops
Dad with the kitty-it was quite popular during the weekend
Welcome Wagon (inside joke)
William
Hello Max
Full tent
Miss Eva with her shades. Leah says she apologizes for her hair? I don't think it looks too weird
Eva brought happy shirts home for Leah and I to match her happy hat
The lights are a little bright
Wilby
Samuel at Nana's house
The show cat
Eva soaking up all the attention she can get. Hmmmm
Norm & Rex's jam session late Saturday night
Uncle Max and Samuel (Don't they look like brothers?)
The crew on Sunday afternoon
George and Krista. I guess something was funny.

lets go home...

After about 2 1/2 weeks of non stop hospital visits and surgery we finally got positive news...After the procedure today, they told us that she was incredibly lucky (fyi: we don't believe in luck :) and that it is looking good and is healing well and that the tissues are adjusting correctly. We still don't know if she will have vision out of that eye or whether or not it will look normal BUT...it's looking a lot better than it was.


Thank you so much to everyone for your prayers, we so appreciated it. Plus, eva has gotten so many cards and gifts from so many people. She told me yesterday that she was going to be busy writing thank you cards to all "these people". I think I've kept everyone's addresses, so she will be occupied for quite some time. :) That's good since she has to sit still for 4-6 weeks...long time for an active 5 year old.

My mom wanted me to put this verse on here: "Blessed be the Lord, because he hath heard the voice of my supplications. The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoices; and with my song I will praise Him."
-Psalm 28: 6-8

Thank you all AGAIN!

Monday, November 02, 2009



(found this picture in an old file. I think I like my eva with her two blue eyes.)

I just pulled a very tired/sad little eva from her car seat. Mom and I just arrived in Chicago late again tonight. It feels like we were just here...I think that is because we were! :) Our house has been so chaotic and busy lately that I feel bad that she's sometimes bounced around especially while all of this is going on. Hopefully everything will soon wind down and get back to normal! They are sedating her tomorrow while examining her eye which is extremely nice so that we don't have to deal with the stress of helping her stay still during that time. Plus, it's traumatizing to Eva to have someone touch her eye since it's so painful. Anyways, I am heading straight to bed, 'cause I'm tired :)

I guess on the good side, mom and I are getting to have lots of 'together time' as we are ...

"On the road again" :)

Sunday, November 01, 2009

Do what's right and the results will remain secure.


Definition of TRUST:

1.reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.
2.confident expectation of something; hope.


Obey God and leave the consequences to Him.

Well the busy weekend is over, hopefully we'll get the pictures back soon to post, otherwise we have some lovely ones taken 'behind the scenes' here around the house and such :) Eva and Mom were able to get home late on Friday and head back up to Children's in the morning. The camp was pulled off with lots of work and many, many volunteers! We had the most campers ever and were leaning far more to 600 than the planned on 500...Dad and Max's football playoff game was on Saturday afternoon, they didn't win but it made for a very exciting game! Now we're hoping to get into the fields (If it would just quit raining!)

Friday, October 30, 2009

29 people for breakfast, more for lunch and then just a couple hundred for dinner. It's raining now, hoping it'll soon clear up! EVA IS COMING HOME TODAY!!!!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Thursday Afternoon

I'm sitting here printing out sign up sheets for activities, everything is actually humming along quite smoothly. Dad is finally in the fields, Eva came out of surgery fine yesterday, Leah is teaching her students and Krista/George and Gracie are coming down tomorrow. Justin, Megan, Samuel, William and Madeline came for lunch here at the house with the other volunteers. The weather looks pretty nasty for the weekend, but I guess time will tell. :)


Well I'm off to pick up liability forms and such so that's all folks...
(that was probably the most dull update ever? :)

Have a great afternoon!

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

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We're now rounding up to 600, yes 14 people decided to send their applications in the day before. :) Eva's out of surgery, everything went well we heard. Thanks for your prayers for her!

If you think about it..

Eva has just gone into surgery. We're here at home getting everything set up for the camp but my mom, Eva and my Aunt who drove from Ohio last night are all at Children's Memorial again. My mom has had to take Eva to the doctor every day for almost the past two weeks. She called after the Dr. came in and looked at eva's eye and she said he was not very positive about her eyesight or the eye looking normal. As of now, the eye looks very disfigured... The surgery (not including prep time) will take at least 2 1/2 to 3 hours and it looks like this surgery will be a series of surgery's that she will have over the next couple weeks. So, that's the update on our little Eva.

p.s. The kitty misses you Eva! Yesterday when we were getting ready to start the washer, no one could find the cat. We keep its little bed and such in the laundry room. Just as Mom was starting the washer, she noticed the cat was in with the laundry. Woops! If the laundry had actually began with the kitten whirling around inside, we would have just had to say 'when it rains, it pours' :)

Hope you have a happy day!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Camp 2009

Today Bentz family came down, they've helped us with the camp for the past several years. They do so much that I'm sure they could run it themselves if they wanted to! We'll have close to 550 people in attendance plus all the volunteers, etc. Since the accident happened with Eva, we're praying that everyone will stay safe!
Mom and Eva left for Children's Memorial today, Eva's surgery is scheduled for tomorrow morning, she'll be able to come home sometime on Friday.
Football playoff's are Saturday afternoon. Go Titans!
Off to watch North & South...It's a really good movie if you haven't seen it yet!!
Goodnight!

2009 LOVC Champions!!!

(#2, right in the center, is Max! Dad is the one that looks like pumpkin.)

The 2009 Titans went from worst to first in one giant leap! A Titan is a warrior, a hitter, a winner. No Reserves, No Retreats, No Regrets! Together we Win! Great Work Habits Make Champions.
I am only one, but I am one. I can't do everything, but I can do something and what I can do, I ought to do, and what I ought to do, by the grace of God, I SHALL DO!

Can't sleep...

No matter what God calls us to, no matter what trial He seems to put as a barrier in our way, as Christians we can be assured that He is in charge and our eternity intact. As Romans eight says: “What can separate us from the love of Christ? Nothing! For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angles, nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
A well known preacher once said: “Why do we call things “bad” if they possess the ability to draw us closer to our Savior?” Obviously, our all powerful, all knowing God has the ability to remove any or all of the hard things that will come and go throughout our lives if he desired and, he would! He would take our thorns away: the trials and temptations that so often tug, pull, and tear us apart IF that would be best. We may find that a wonderful plan but in reality, He is able to do abundantly more than that. He gives us a gift that is far greater, and that is GRACE which is sufficient for all of our needs. He will use the desert-like times to create a loyal, trusting love in Him.
It’s simple. If we didn’t see our need for a certain thing, we would never go get it. It does not take much to know that we would never eat if we didn’t experience hunger. We wouldn’t drink if we knew nothing about thirst. We would never trust in our Savior if we didn’t have forced reliance upon Him through our seemingly impossible circumstances! So when things get hurled our way and make us cling to Jesus, our immediate response should be, Praise God!

It is us that will say, “God is sovereign, he will not give me more than I can bear” but oh no, that is not true! For God will stretch you, bend you, break you, and crack you until you cannot anymore handle it on your own. This is hard, sometimes excruciatingly painful and yet it brings us exactly to the place God delights in having us...where every true believer wants to be.
He desires for us to demonstrate this dependence-like attitude and raise our white flag in full surrender to His purpose. Anything, absolutely anything is good if it drives us to cling to our God. Though not what you’d originally think, our inadequacy is an asset. God is actually waiting to show what he can accomplish with so little. It frees Him to show His power, using us to our maximum potential, leaving Him to receive full glory. The Bible is saturated with examples of God using the insignificant, the weak, the humble and the young.

Take Noah, who stood out from his culture, building in obedience for 130 years-

Abraham waited decades before receiving his son-

David killed a giant when no one else could-

Joseph rose above undesirable circumstances, proving to be faithful in little-

Job, a set apart man in his generation, lived not knowing how long his suffering would last-

Daniel spent the night in a pit full of lions-

Peter got out of the boat, unsure of the outcome-

But it was Jesus who likely echoed words of these men when he pleaded: “Father, if it be your will, let this cup pass from me.” All of those men stood at a crossroad in life where they must chose whom they would serve.

What did their actions reply?

It showed that they walked by faith and not by sight-

That they walked by faith and not by feeling-

That they walked by faith and not by fear-
They then discovered that when they walked by faith, they walked in the freedom that comes only when we surrender our all. They were not intimidated. For if you exist in fear and not upon the sovereignty of your all-powerful, all-knowing, mighty God, it will do nothing but hinder you. It will dwindle our supposed personal relationship with God to a diluted substance of what he truly desires to give us, leaving us woefully stunted Christians. He sent all those great men of the Bible to a place where they could either reject the circumstances their all-knowing God had orchestrated or say: “Your strength is made perfect in my weakness”
I distinctly remember my nephew William this past summer being afraid of his birthday candles. It seemed silly that he would be scared of something so harmless. While we were looking only to his best interest, he in turn was absolutely terrified. The plans God holds for us, we cannot fathom. Because he has the ability to see the entire picture, it makes Him trying to explain His will equal to us attempting to define DNA to a two year old. It can’t be done. It says: “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, nor has it entered into the heart of man what God has prepared for us.” When we believe that, we can then rest, believing that...
"As for God, HIS ways are perfect!"

"Trust and obey,
For there's no other way,
To be happy in Jesus,
But to TRUST & OBEY"
It's interesting what verses will stick to you like a burr if it's applicable in your life during one time or another. I don't memorize easily but I am able to remember these scriptures without hardly trying. They are great promises reminding us that GOD is in control of our lives!

“Have you not known? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; His understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the faint, and to Him who has no might He increases strength. Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted; but they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and NOT FAINT!” Isaiah 40:28-31

“With man, things are impossible, but with GOD all things are possible.”

“Though the fig tree should not blossom, Nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, and the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD; I will take joy in the God of my salvation. God, the LORD, is my strength; he makes my feet like the deer’s; he makes me tread on high places.”
Habakkuk 3:17-19

“Delight in the Lord, and He WILL give you the desires of your heart.”

“But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope. The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, His mercies never come to an end, they are new every morning, great is your faithfulness. The Lord is my portion says my soul, Therefore I will hope in Him. The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him. It is good that one should wait quietly.”
Lamentations 3:21-26

“Look among the nations, and see; wonder and be astounded. For I am doing a work in your days that you would not believe if told.” … “If it seems slow, wait for it; it will surely come; it will NOT delay.”

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. You will seek me and find me.”

“The Lord of hosts has sworn: As I have planned, so shall it be, and as I have purposed, so shall it stand…For the Lord has purposed, and who will annul it? His hand is stretched out, and who will turn it back.” Isaiah 14:24, 27

Monday, October 26, 2009

Identity hidden in CHRIST

While working a lot with the elderly during the spring and summer months this year, one thing became quite clear to me that I wasn't quite convinced of previously. When you're eighty, beauty will leave, strength and ability will be gone and your memory faded. That's when I gained the perspective that the career, money or status you once possessed in your younger days doesn't count for much after a while.

There was one lady I especially loved. You could tell that she lived an abundant life, for she held dear the things of God, highly esteemed what He counts as important and then made it her priority. She wasn't worried about the pursuits that the world applauds. As far as I know she didn't do anything especially spectacular but when all other material things in life failed her, she was still able to hold onto what she had spent her life for: Her Lord, her faith and her family.

I vaguely knew this lady before I came to work with her. We both lived in the same small town all of our lives but I didn't know the former Hazel. The one I came to know was when the personality in Hazel was gone. Her mind was tired and worn out and her memory was completely lost. And yet, even in the state I found her in, she had an incredible influence upon my life during that short time. I came to see how she had lived counter to the current of our feminist culture. Her life echoed the words to this song: "You can have all this world (the careers, money, power) but give me Jesus." How she lived life stated, 'I care so much about Your plan for me, my God-give purpose as a wife and mother that you can have all the other baubles during this short time on earth.'

The things that Hazel left behind won't fade and they won't forget her. She spent her life for the things that would follow her into eternity. It was evident that she lived and breathed this verse: "But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy and where thieves do not break in and steal."

She stayed true to what has been so carelessly tossed aside in our rushed generation. Instead of buying the lie which calls motherhood terribly insignificant, she in turn left a testimony of raising an incredibly Godly family. Her home did not stand void of her duty and Privilege and there she found the most fulfilling purpose.

Though Hazel couldn't remember my name minute to minute, she had just about every hymn in the book memorized. Since I worked 24 hour shifts at the assisted living home, I would get to help Hazel get ready for bed in the evening. It was my absolute favorite part of the day! I'd get my pajamas on since I'd stay all night. We'd laugh as I'd attempt to put her hair net on. I'd get her situated to where she was comfortable, then I'd pop up on the edge of the Bed and I'd pull out her Bible from off her nightstand. I remember distinctly reading to her (to both of us really) from the Psalms and one night and coming across the verse: "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints." She made me pause there and said "I can't wait to get there" That same night she mixed up the words to her favorite hymn, Amazing Grace. She said:

"Through many dangers, toils and snares
I have already come;
'Tis Grace that brought me safe thus far
and now I'm going home"
(It's supposed to be: Grace will lead me home.)

It was common for Hazel to be confused. Many times she'd almost plead to "go home". I always assumed she meant back to the place she lived in prior to coming to where she was. Now that she's gone, I often think that she must have been longing for her heavenly home and I'm pretty sure I'm right.

When I ran across this video clip featuring a snapshot of Ruth Graham's life, I wonder what the feminist side of the world would reply. What they could say! Except for my Grandma, this has to be the most beautiful snapshot of a woman's life that I have ever seen! She left behind a legacy no amount of fame or earthly glory could.


"She was the lovely, beautiful, wise woman she was because early in her life she chose Christ as her CENTER, her HOME, her PURPOSE, her EXAMPLE and her VISION."

"She taught all of us children to love the Lord God and His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ."

"My father would have not father would not have been what he is today if it wasn't for my mother." -Franklin Graham

"There never would have been a Billy Graham without a Ruth Graham." -Ned Graham

"We were married for nearly 64 years. I wish you could look in that casket because she's so beautiful." -Billy Graham

She was a pretty lady, but no doubt as the earthly beauty faded, it gave more room for her inward heart to be exposed. God had been cultivating it and molding it all those years and her husband could see it! I could be wrinkled, and hunched over and my memory gone if that is what must buy me more time to become more like my Savior. If I'm ninety when I'm truly beautiful, it would be well worth the trade! It means that He'd have 71 more years to make me more like Jesus, one step closer to Christ.

Billy Graham could surely say this: "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts in her so that he will have no lack of gain."
-Proverbs 31

Ah, THAT is what I want to spend my life doing.


Seasons not over yet!

Last game Titans won: 38-7... Playoffs begin this weekend!

Saturday, October 24, 2009

October day

He started out as a puppy: cute, cuddly and warm. You could hold him in your hand, dress him up or give him baths in the laundry room sink. Eventually though the furry ball we named “Duke” grew up to be not so little. One day as Duke was trotting along at his rather brisk pace while on a walk around town a neighbor yelled at me, “don’t let the dog walk you, walk the dog!” I know it’s strange how my mind will travel on a single sentence, but anyways…

Recently I have in my own life been trying to play out what Philippians 4:8 means in a practical way: “Finally, brothers, whatever is True, whatever is Honorable, whatever is Lovely, whatever is Commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on THESE things.”

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand that what you feed grows and what is starved dies. Apparently we fed Duke ‘til he grew into what we would have once thought massive in comparison to his once tiny puppy self. While he was rather small, we never imagined him growing to such proportions, :)

So it is in my life. Inevitably, along will come the thoughts that pop into my mind any given day. In the beginning it is like a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not willing to be viewed in its entirety for if I saw the monster it could eventually create I would surely hurl it out in an instant! Instead, I’ll carelessly toy with the concepts and ideas that are so willing to take up residence in my heart and mind. I’ll handle them as one who entertains a playful puppy, not cautioning to realize that one day it will eventually grow.

My sister’s husband is from Africa. When I spent a few weeks in Nigeria with my brother in law’s family one summer I learned a lot but if there was one thing I remember it would be Samuel Ochenjele in his trademark enthusiasm telling me: “Therese! Though you may have no control over the birds that fly over your head, you do have the ability to keep them from building a nest in your hair.” (He was actually referring to me getting homesick and that if I would just muster up a little more willpower he believed I wouldn’t want to leave!)

But, the thing that landed in my memory bank was that the mind is such a powerful thing and what we allow to roam and reside will dictate our actions. So don’t let sin rule your life, for through Christ we poses the ability to control not what moves through, but what settles in our thought life. In other words, don’t let the dog walk you, walk the dog. Don’t let sin control your life, rather get rid of the sin!

"Keep your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life."

Thursday, October 22, 2009

the saga of today

I brought the kitten that I successfully caught this morning back to the house for safekeeping until Eva got home from her doctor visit. Unfortunately as soon as I turned my head, Isaac who was holding it decided to let the no name cat wander around the house with his eight year old supervision. Now a barn kitten doesn't come with an owners manual, but then again, neither do little boys. Apparently you shouldn't place the two together prior to both parties having proper instruction. :) Five minutes later I realized that I had an object the size of my palm lost somewhere in the midst of our home.
Almost the minute I began searching I became depressed. We're talking needle in a haystack! Plus, I was envisioning a petrified cat stuck somewhere lying stiff and cold with its stench reaching our noses about the time that we had camp volunteers in and out of our house next week.
It was starting to hit me that the reason I was on my hands and knees crawling around our house trying to think like a cat (ie. where exactly I would hide if I was a cat...yeah, I was getting pretty desperate) was that there was one person solely responsible for the care of the kitten and it was ME! I actually rubbed a hole in the knee of my favorite jeans.
Long story short, we found it!

it's Thursday

I could go into much detail of how long you must wait in order to catch a barn kitty but instead I'll just say that I think that Eva will benefit from my patience. :)


Thanks also to everyone who has been so very thoughtful to send cards, e-mails, packages and blogger comments to her-She had quite the stack to open last night when she got home! Everyone has been so generous in praying for us too. We really, really appreciate your kindness!
mom and eva on Monday

Camp Weather ?

We sure hope it doesn't look like this!!!
www.fathersoncamp.org
Last registration chance this week. . .

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

we're home!

First thing this morning they were telling us that we'd have to stay another day but thankfully they changed their minds and we arrived home around eight tonight. She has to see the opthamologist tomorrow and Friday at the hospital an hour away and then goes back to Children's Memorial on Tuesday for a second surgery and they'll get back on Friday from Chicago. Now they are sewing up the iris, removing a cataract that formed, clean the eye, something with the retina, doing general reconstructive surgery. Right now they are concerned about a 2d bleed and the excessive swelling because both those things are causing permanent damage.
After surgery


Tuesday, October 20, 2009

clock is ticking (slowly!)

So, we're still here at the hospital, just waiting...they didn't do her surgery at 2:45, they called us early this morning and wanted to start asap. It seems like we've been here for a very, very long time even though we really haven't. Just hope that everything turns out ok and we are able to go home soon! (Which is probably exactly what everybody else here with their child is thinking!) They haven't said whether or not she will regain sight in the left eye, or if it will look normal but, I guess they aren't going to tell you something when there is the possibility of it not turning out perfectly so, maybe she will still be fine after all. I feel so bad for our Isaac! I heard that he has a surprise for eva when she gets home. Hmmm...I wonder what it is, he wouldn't tell me. :) I told eva that since she couldn't eat until after surgery. that I wouldn't either. How'd that go? Well...when boredom strikes, food is an excellent substitute. So I kinda let Eva down, woops. Sitting here with my 2d pack of animal crackers from the vending machine. The really depressing thing is is that it has 97 calories in it. So dividing that by the 9 crackers-ouch. And they taste healthy...I didn't want to spend a whole dollar on making myself feel like I was eating cardboard. Just for future reference, the 'basil's' brand is much awesomer than the 'Stauffer's'. With much enthusiasm I'm inserting a camel. and a cat. mostly though there are hippos. Maybe little kids like hippos. These are great hippos though!



Well, I really need to work on homework (yet another good reason to do all of school online-fits in with our family's crazy life!) The doctor just came in, they said that after another surgery, she has a good possibility of being able to see and...sounds like we'll be up here yet another day. They are still concerned that the bb is still in there, we thought they had already confirmed that it was not in the eye. So they are running more tests on that. Tomorrow. They want to do another surgery next week. Happens to be the week that we are hosting 550 campers. hmmmm...



But looking around here at the waiting room, watching a Mom sob, a Dad cry, it puts it into perspective.

It's exactly 3 in the afternoon and we are just seeing Eva now... ok, so an update:
-We'll be up here another day... (so will the green sweater be worn today-I didn't really pack anything that matched haha, but I'm lookin' sweet though much better than Friday when I was the un official vomit rag)
-We just talked to leah & Isaac on Skype and showed them Eva, she just got out of surgery and is in recovery. She was gone from about 12:30 so...long time.
-Not too much else... maybe i should check back when I'm sounding a bit more sane.
I'll write more about the details of the surgery when she gets up, etc. etc.

thanks again!

Monday, October 19, 2009

10/19 update

Eva saw the head of ophthalmology at Children's Memorial in Chicago today and is scheduled for surgery tomorrow at 2:30. Please keep her in your prayers that she would have a complete recovery in every way, both for her sake and for Isaac's.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Another Update...10 pm on Sunday



Eva, Therese and my Mom headed up to Chicago this evening, where Eva will be seeing a specialist and having surgery. They have not actually scheduled the surgery yet, since this happened over the weekend, but it is likely that she will be having it tomorrow. They will be reattaching the iris, washing the eye and removing a cataract that has already formed. Everyone's really wanting to do the surgery soon because of a blood clot that is in her eye. When this starts to break up, it will be intensely painful and cause a lot of pressure in the eye, which could lead to more severe problems. So, they are hoping to resolve all of that before it becomes an issue.


Little Eva has been so brave through all of this! She has been really good about taking the drops and being still. We can't let her walk anywhere, just because of the potential for bouncing/jarring, so she has to ask one of us to carry her wherever she wants to go. Light really bothers her, so we have to keep the shades pulled in whichever room she is in. She's been really cheerful even though she has to sit still all day. I sat with her on the couch for most of the afternoon and we painted our nails, read books, and all sorts of things. Then, she wanted to play with her miniature Strawberry Shortcake dolls and accessories that someone had given her. I guess I forgot how to play pretend, because after a while, she looked at me and was cracking up and said, "Leah, I just don't think you're good at this anymore." :)

She left tonight for Chicago with lots of books and toys packed for her stay, and was sitting in the backseat with some glow sticks that snap together to make jewelry. Eva was a little nervous about having surgery, but Max told her it's pretty fun- what?- I think because of when they put you to sleep. We just listened to a tape last week called "The Man Who Conquered Pain" about the doctors who invented anesthesia, so at least she knows about that!!

We appreciate everyone's prayers and support more than you know. I'll let you know when I find out more.

another update

We took Eva in to the doctor today and instead of her sight becoming clearer like they thought, she now has no vision out of her eye except for being able to distinguish movement and recognize light. My mom probably could explain it more, but for now they are sending her up to Children's Memorial in Chicago...

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Evangeline's Recovery

Evangeline just thanked me for making her take her eye drops because her eye is" feeling so much better." We take her back to the opthamologist tomorrow morning. I am so grateful for the appointment because we can't really tell what is going on with her eye. She has a patch over it and it is very swollen. The doctor wants her to stay as still as possible b/c she is at risk for a detached retina, glaucoma, or another bleed, which would require emergency surgery. We were told that she is going to need reconstructive surgery on the iris. All day yesterday she was as limp as a rag doll and seriously sick to her stomach. About 2:30am she popped out of it. PTL!! Anyway, she did enjoy the extra attention from her grandparents, siblings, and aunts and uncles...oh and her brothers-in-law. (That sounds strange for a five year old!)


Anyway, thank you all so much for your prayers and concern. We have thanked God for you all and we appreciate you!

Our sweet Eva

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Some videos we ran into on the computer of Eva...these are a little old- she was 4 at the time.

Friday, October 16, 2009

Update

Eva just got home at 11:30 pm, almost ten hours after the incident occurred. We appreciate everyone's prayers so much. The accident happened when Isaac and Eva were out playing on a break from school. The had been riding their bikes up and down the driveway, and then Isaac came in and asked to get his BB gun out. Somehow, a BB bounced off a branch and hit Eva's eye.

After trips to two different hospitals, they have found that the BB hit the eye but did not penetrate it. It hit the pupil directly and they can see an indentation the exact side of the BB. It shaved off the cornea and detached the iris. She has had a severe bleed in her eye. The good news is that the retina has not been damaged. But, she is still at risk for a detached retina and has to be very still until she goes back to the doctor on Sunday morning. She is also still at risk for having another bleed, and in that case, they will have to do surgery to relieve pressure on the eye.

Eva is in severe pain right now and has been vomiting a lot. Please pray for her that she could rest as comfortably as possible. She is on five different medications, some of which she has to have eight times a day. Many of them are eye drops, and it is painful for her to have those administered. Please also pray for Isaac who is feeling so sad that he hurt her. He and Eva are best buddies and the next few days will be rough for them both.

On Sunday, they will determine if she needs to have reconstructive surgery. In that case, she will be sent to Northwestern (Children's Memorial, I think) for this. We will keep you posted.

~leah

Please Pray...


...for little Eva who had an accident today and got shot by a bb gun in the eye. She was taken to the hospital by ambulance this afternoon and is doing okay. We'll let you know when we know more.


Tuesday, October 13, 2009

I made...a mess

I got up this morning and wrote out this big to do list and at the moment I have about three things accomplished. It's because I have this problem. A few people have tried to avail, but most just accept the fact that sometimes, I am hopelessly drastic. It comes out in everyday life. For me, I have two options: on or off. By that I mean I am either asleep or awake. (literally-ask anyone I live with!) There's no in between mode. It's all or nothing. I sprint in life until I crash and burn and sometimes headlong dashes aren't exactly planning for success when the journey of life calls for stamina and a steady pace.

Mediocre and medium don't exist. And this morning when I decided to try out our friends apple bread recipe I didn't just make a nice loaf to go with dinner. Nope, I now have our counter space filled with apples. Apple bread, apple muffins, and apple pie. Not to mention the homemade applesauce I made last night. Any apple that previously existed in a non-baked form at our house has now been satisfactorily pealed and chopped. (or should I say minced)

Now stands the question: What's for dinner? Any quick suggestions because I'm thinking that I'm wanting to escape the massive piles of dishes and leave the kitchen for good today! :)

p.s. I don't know if a phantom lives at your house. There's one at ours and it took the camera cord. I'll try to put up pictures sooner than later. But for now I need to go~ Happy fall! (Unfortunately we skipped fall and ended up with weather that's more accustomed for late November. Brr!)

therese anne

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Lukewarm

It's easy to not do rather than to do. What that means, is that it's fairly easy not to go to the trashy movies, the wild parties, and live in the way of immorality. You may even find that you unknowingly thumb your delicate nose at the patterns of this world. But realizing that what you don't do is as important as what you do is of utmost necessity. For you can unknowingly relax in a 'good-girl' status-assured never to commit an evil act and yet accomplishing nothing worth-while. Rutted in a stagnant life of mediocrity, settling for far less than God's best. Sacrificing your life for the state of what is, never exploring the grand frontier of the what-could-have-been.


~just something i've been thinking about

"I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were either cold or hot! So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth."
-Revelation 3:15-16

"She puts her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle. She opens her hands to the needy...She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness."

-Proverbs 31

Mighty mighty Titans

Total domination: 37-0
We love OUR coach!
Must have been what the ate in the morning...They came over for breakfast yesterday and ate close to three big box's of pancake and waffle mix, a few dozen eggs, doughnuts, etc. Plus four roasts my Dad had in the crock pot (and no, we don't really eat that for breakfast food but obviously football players do!)